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文章翻译,与人联结的方法

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发布时间:2016-08-15作者:系统管理员

Here are five strategies to begin connecting with people around us today.

Smile!

The Jewish sage Rabbi Shammai used to counsel “receive everyone with a cheerful face.” Greeting others with a warm “hello” can alter an entire conversation, transforming any interaction into a chance to truly connect with another person.

Judge others favorably.

Remember that we don’t know all the circumstances behind another person’s actions. Perhaps that difficult person you’re dealing with is ill, or has a problem at home.

Examine your own actions.

When I was growing up, my mother always used to tell me that people see in others what they know to be true of their selves: we’re all more attuned to challenges that we have, and often have a shorter fuse about issues we personally struggle with. Years later, I found the source of this advice was none other than the Talmud. The world is like a mirror, in which the faults we see in other people are meant to remind us to address them in ourselves.

Make the first move.

Sometimes the dividing line between people we think of as friends and strangers whom we don’t care about can be frighteningly thin. In some circumstances, all it takes is an invitation to meet up to transform and acquaintance into someone we truly care about and are connected to.

See challenges as opportunities.

Judaism teaches that we’re each given specific circumstances to help us grow. Once we start looking at our setbacks, tough situations, and even the difficult people in our lives as chances to train ourselves to be better people, we’re often better able to handle them.

Try looking at the obstacles in your life as opportunities to transcend your circumstances, to react with grace, and to come closer to the person you are truly capable of being.

目前我们可以通过五种方法开始与周围人的联结:

1、微笑

犹太圣贤拉比Shammom 曾建议:用愉快的表情接待每一个人。以一句温暖的“你好!”来问候他人可以彻底改变你们之间的对话,并能把任何一次互动转化为与人真正联结的机会。

2、以善意判断他人

请记住我们并不了解他人行为背后所有的环境因素。也许令你难以相处的这个人生病了,又或许是家里出现了问题。

3、审视自己的行为

在我成长的过程中,母亲常常告诉我,人们在他人身上看到的只有真实的自己。人们都是对自身存在的问题更加敏锐,因此对于令我们个人纠结的问题,我们常常感到很急躁。多年以后,我发现母亲这条建议的来源就在塔木德里。这个世界就像一面镜子,其间我们在他人身上看到的一切问题,目的都是为了提醒自己,要在自己身上解决。

4、迈出第一步

有时我们划分朋友和毫不关心的陌生人之间的界限模糊的可怕。在有些情况下,只需约见一个人,结识并把对方转变成我们在乎的、有联结的人即可。

5.视挑战为机遇

犹太信仰教导说,我们每个人都被赋予了特定的环境以帮助我们成长。一旦我们开始把挫折、困境、甚至是难以相处的人,看作是训练自己成为更好的人的机会,我们通常就有能力更好地处理这些问题。试着把生活中的困难看成是战胜环境的机遇,欣然回应,那么你就朝着理想中的自己又迈进了一步。

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